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There is a woman who I’d like to ask out for a date, but I’m not sure if she is open to dating other ethnicities. Any suggestions? Stuck in Mobile * * * Dear Stuck: I’ve been asked this question many times. Some women are open to dating outside of their nationality. With others it’s a taboo, one they will never breach. Sooo, the only suggestion I have is to strike up a conversation and PAY ATTENTION TO HER BODY LANGUAGE... lol I wrote that in caps coz y’all don’t always pay attention like ya should! |
You need to notice, how does she react when you talk to her? For example: good body language - she leans in your direction when talking, makes lots of eye contact, smiles often, and the ever popular touching of her face and/or hair, doesn’t seem to be in a hurry to end your conversation; bad body language - she looks annoyed or angry and doesn’t make eye contact, nor does she smile, polite but distant, leans away from you or keeps a good amount of personal space between the two of you, doesn’t try to engage you in conversation; mixed body language - cordial but doesn’t prolong your conversations, friendly but keeps you at arm’s length. smiles often but doesn’t lean toward you when talking .
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Remember: Good Body Lang = go for it; Bad Body Lang = back away slowly and go about your business; Mixed Body Lang = proceed with caution, she may just being friendly and not interested in you in any other way, could be terribly shy or doesn’t want to scare YOU off by letting you know she’s interested. Let me know how things turn out! Huggles, Have a question for Auntie Anne? Submit your question here: |