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10. Take her to another world Get out of the ordinary and take her to a new world. Find a restaurant with eclectic food, surreal decor and exotic music, and she will never forget her dining experience. Don't stop short at seeing the latest blockbuster; instead, take her to see a classic or a foreign favorite. Whatever you do, be original. 9. Be spontaneous and improvise Whether it means calling her at the last second and telling her you're taking her out or changing the course of action while on a date, women like bold men that take chances and keep them on their toes. 8. Adrenalize her Take it up a notch and go scuba diving, snorkeling, bungee jumping, mountain climbing, or rollerblading. It never hurts to get the adrenaline running. Next thing you know, she will be asking for a more rigorous workout. 7. Go to Hollywood Well, sort of. If you are really up for it, add a twist to the dynamics and contact dating theme-based television shows to make it a truly memorable one (you'll even have it on tape, as will the rest of the TV viewing audience). This one may backfire, but she will never say that you didn't try. 6. Have a backup plan If you see that things are not going your way, it's never too late -- call an audible and roll with the punches. She will love your sense of adventure and assertiveness. 5. Ask around If you can, ask her sister, friends or parents what that one thing she has always wanted to try is. If you know someone in her circle, impressing her can become as easy as taking candy from a baby. 4. Spend (wisely) We may not wish to admit it, but both men and women like the finer things in life, no matter how simple our primal needs may be. Do not insult her intelligence by buying her affection, but go all out by not letting cents and mere dollars impede your sense of romance. 3. Adjust the settings If you wish to get into a deep discussion, take her someplace quiet where you can talk and focus on each other. Conversely, if you prefer the conversation to be secondary, go somewhere activity-oriented (like a ceramic-making cafe or karaoke bar). 2. Trip out of mind Any vacation will work wonders, whether it's a day of hiking or a weekend at a spa. Find out what she likes and plan accordingly, which includes taking care of the necessary preparations (i.e. if you go camping, pack the tent). 1. Capture the moment It's always nice to plan well and have a memorable date, but unless you capture the moment, memories fade away. Take pictures and/or collect mementos (such as the business card of that place where you had your first kiss), and offer them to her in a special way later on. You need not go all out to enjoy a memorable night with a special someone; focus on her, be yourself, plan accordingly, and everything will fall into your lap -- literally. By Dateable.com You have found a possible soul mate, but now you are worried of the cost of the whole wooing process because you're on a thrifty budget. Well, do not fret over it because there are alternative ideas. It is possible to date with little or no cash flow and it can allow you to be creative while having a frugally fun time. 1. Do some star gazing at a local college observatory. It is open to the public during the school year and it's absolutely free. 2. Feel one with nature. Have a picnic and explore a state or national park (admission is typically under $10 or free). 3. See a music laser show at a planetarium for around $6.00. 4. Check out a poetry reading or other events at a bookstore. Sometimes snacks or beverages are provided. 5. Create a food themes night and cook each other a dinner and appetizer at home. 6. Check out local arts festivals, craft fairs, flea markets or antiques fairs. Admission is typically under $10. 7. Attend a beer or wine tasting. At less than $10 each, you get more buzz for your buck! 8. Swing is back. Take a dance lesson and tear up the dance floor with the hottest moves. Often, the first lesson is free. 9. Attend a student art show. Often the shows are free and refreshments follow. 10. Rent your favorite movies or see an IMAX movie for under $10. © Dateable.com LLC 2000 |
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